My now husband and I moved into our newly built home 2 months before we got married and went on our honeymoon. Thanks to some awesome friends, we were able to have everything unpacked and put into place. I had the week off before our honeymoon and cleaned the entire house before leaving. We gave my MIL the code to the house in case of any emergencies....she ended up going into our home and re-cleaning it and also did my laundry. I only had the sexy lingerie I wore that week in the basket to be hand washed when I got home. I felt violated by her intrusion into my home and touching my personal belongings. I've seen her snoop through my cupboards and drawers when she doesn't know I can see her:(. We've tried to talk to her about it....she acts like a victim.